Thursday, August 02, 2007 @11:47 AM
Between a Man and a Woman
i remembered a few years ago i was madly in love with this particular woman. that time i was single, and i had loads of doubts and fears in my mind. like will i end up single forever, or what would i do if i got rejected or maybe even feel sad and lonely when i see other couples on the streets having fun and celebrating occasions together.
today im not single. im attached but not to that woman but to another. was it a god-sent relationship? or was it in a manner of rashness? both doesnt matter, what matters is whether you enjoy the process. yes without a doubt im full of love for this current particular woman. however the feeling when i was single cant be shaken off. its the same kind of feeling but with different thoughts like, whether you are right for her. whether you can give the best happiness in the world or whether you would ever love another. whether, you had been a good boyfriend.
i always pictured imagined that me and my partner would be more like best friends than lovey dovey kind. i wouldnt prefer those extreme feminine women or those town-girls who seek nothing but fame.
i didn expect pressure, i didn expect to be so uptight, i didn expect fear.
and now i realise, a relationship isnt as sweet as it seems. like all other matters in the world, it takes time and effort. its about compromising, learning when to keep your mouth shut and when to say the right things at the right time. its about learning to appreciate your partner's flaws and its about learning to sacrifice.
love songs are loads of crap though they sound nice. love cannot be expressed. it can only be done. the millions of "i love yous" are being said around the world every second. how many are true? how many are said for the sake of saying, how many are said just to get a woman into bed?
so overall, to me what i really feel is, if you feel unnatural or uneasy in a relationship, quit it.
time is the best judge for love, not words.
*say anything, but say what you mean